If I Could Show You How To
Read Another Person's Mind—
Would
You Be Interested?
(Now, There's No Way I Invented ALL This Stuff, But I've Been Accumulating and Tweaking It For 19 Years… And You Want to Know the Cool Part? You Can Have Access to it All, Right NOW…)
by Jef Nance, CFE—author of Conquering Deception© and former trooper with the Missouri
State Highway Patrol; member of the Association of Certified Fraud Examiners and the National Speakers Association.
Hi, my name is Jef Nance, and you may have never heard of me—but thousands of people around the world know me as the author of Conquering Deception©: How to Know What Anyone in Any Conversation is REALLY Saying. It's the top-selling book that Cal Fussman of Esquire Magazine recommended this way: "If you want to learn to become all ears, open your eyes and read this book."
Okay, so can I take a guess what might be in YOUR mind right now? Maybe you're wondering, "Is this ‘Mind-reading' thing just marketing hype?" It's a reasonable question, and I can't blame anybody for wondering—I've never been a stranger to skepticism myself.
Well, here's the answer, NO, it's not hype, it's real: You CAN read another person's mind, AND consistently spot deception… but everything that SOUNDS too good to be true always seems to have a catch, right?
So let's get the "catch" out of the way right up front: To do both these things, you'll have to keep an open mind, you must be willing to LISTEN at a new level, and you're also going to need to be aware of some very subtle, time-tested little secrets of the spoken word…
And just so you don't think there's anything "mystical" or "diabolical" about this claim of Mind-Reading, I've got to be real clear about this: You don't read another person's mind by telepathy, or "ESP", it's not a supernatural power that only some are born with, you don't eat seeds off a bush like they did in that episode of Gilligan's Island, and you don't have to study under a Gypsy fortune teller to learn how to do this…Fortunately, it's a LOT simpler than any of that hocus pocus…
In fact, it's so simple that ANYBODY can know what another person is thinking if they just have access to a few techniques, and are willing to open their mind to a new way—a deeper way—of communicating…
Think You Might Benefit From Knowing…
- The 2 factors people SUBCONSCIOUSLY use in deciding whether to lie…
- The ONLY 2 motivators that move people to do ANYTHING…
- How fear moves people to lie—AND tell the TRUTH…
- The FACTS about watching eye movements and WHAT to watch for…
And just so you don't get the wrong idea, I want to point out that I'm not giving you a "magic pill" here either—like anything worthwhile, it takes a little effort to learn this stuff, and a bit of self-discipline to use… if that scares you, you're free to stop reading, no hard feelings… THIS ISN'T FOR EVERYBODY.
Anyway, if we just lost a few folks, that's okay…
YOU'RE still here, so let's get to it…
Okay, we don't read their minds through any of that funky stuff, so how's it done? Well, here's the deal… when most of us think of "Mind-reading" we think of being able to "listen" to another person's thoughts, sort of like picking up a radio signal, I guess…
Truth is, nobody I've ever heard of can do this, but here's the SECRET: To discover another person's thoughts—what they don't want us to know—we don't need anything other than THEIR OWN WORDS. People ALWAYS expose more than they realize… so let me give you RULE NUMBER ONE:
People GIVE YOU all the information you want or need…
When you hear another person speak, whether you realize it or not, you're hearing their thoughts, getting a glimpse "inside their mind"—because WORDS COME FROM OUR THOUGHTS, right? That's the only place they CAN come from…
Here's a little fact that'll help explain why people ALWAYS give you everything you're after, EVEN THE TRUTH: People can think about 250 words a minute, but they can only speak about 125. So when a person's talking, they're CONSTANTLY working to filter the thoughts they want to give you… from the thoughts they want to HOLD BACK.
Sound like hard work? Well, you're right, it is! In fact it's so hard, that from the President of the United States, right down to your next door neighbor, NO ONE can filter out everything they don't want you to know…
So here's what happens: "Pieces" of what they want to hold back, what they don't want you to know, get tangled up with what they're choosing to let out… so they ALWAYS end up divulging more than they mean to! And this takes us to RULE NUMBER 2:
People ALWAYS reveal more than they REALIZE…
People can't help CONVEYING the truth, even as they're being deceptive. I know that sounds crazy—and it IS—but it's also absolutely true! People ALWAYS give you the truth, even when they're trying to mislead you… the only thing that saves them is that the average person doesn't listen very well, and those who DO listen well still miss the subtleties… simply because they don't know what to listen FOR. Which leads us to RULE NUMBER 3:
Virtually EVERYONE misses this REVEALING
information that's been ACCIDENTALLY RELEASED!
Here's the deal: Our parents TOLD us not to lie, but it's one of the first things we learned, right? Kids start telling "Tall Tales" at about age four—sometimes for fun, sometimes for survival (the same reason most adults do it, by the way)…
Nobody has to be taught how to lie, any more than we have to be taught how to cough when we get choked!
But did our parents (or our teachers) ever let us know HOW TO SPOT A LIE? You know what? Nobody taught us—because they didn't know! And they STILL don't… our parents and our teachers relied on the same method of detecting deception that everybody STILL uses: GUT INSTINCT! And you know something else? Gut instinct is a Sucker-maker.
Hang On If You Want to Discover…
- The 3 LEVELS of Deception…
- The 2 reasons most people FAIL to spot deception…
- The common MISCONCEPTIONS of how to recognize deception…
- The SINGLE BEST WAY to test a "sign" of deception…
Everybody's parents may have taught them not to lie, but it didn't stick: Not only did they LEARN TO LIE, but everybody got REALLY GOOD at it!
So we've all got two things working against us, every day:
Nobody ever taught us how to spot deception, and
We're surrounded by people who use it all the time!
Does EVERYBODY lie?
Can you handle the truth?
Okay, here it is: Everybody DOES lie!
Sometimes people are dishonest to do us harm, other times they're just trying to SAVE THEMSELVES. And sometimes they're just being NICE! Think about it: If everybody told the absolute truth ALL the time, wouldn't there be TOTAL CHAOS?
So there's a LOT of reasons people do it, but the end result is, deception is rampant—and anyone who fails or refuses to understand this simple fact of life is the MOST VULNERABLE to it!
Maybe you ate it up, but I HATED algebra…
And even in the 9th grade I knew this as they were (trying) to teach it to me: I would NEVER use this junk in the REAL WORLD! If you doubt me, try this: When you wake up tomorrow, vow not to do any ALEGEBRA all day, and also… vow not to CONVERSE WITH ANOTHER PERSON—and see which vow you break first!
It's a fact of life: We MUST talk to other people. It's also true that most of our successes AND our problems are brought to us through our CONVERSATIONS—our results depend on how good we are at managing the words we hear and the words we speak…
Think about it: How much of your PAIN and FRUSTRATION
comes to you through the exchange of words with other people?
So they spent years DRILLING us with stuff we'd never need… that's bad enough, but then they left out the one thing we'd ABSOLUTELY need: Solid, reliable methods for communicating so that we could get what we WANTED from other people! Is that too much to ask for? See, whether it's the TRUTH or just their COOPERATION, we have to be savvy in how we listen and how we state our OWN thoughts and ideas to other people—or we miss out BIG TIME.
To be honest, algebra wasn't the only thing I disliked about school… there was everything else they taught, too! I couldn't wait to get out, to get into the "real world". Little did I know, the Real World would be my REAL CLASSROOM, where I'd learn things my teachers didn't have any idea of, in fact, things virtually NO ONE in the private sector knows still to this day!
I won't kid you: I didn't learn this stuff overnight, and at times I was a VERY slow learner. On top of that, I made a lot of DUMB MISTAKES. But for the first time in my life, I came across this incredible information that no one had ever taught me in 16 years of school—and I'll bet you 10 bucks they never mentioned it to you, either. I don't want to over simplify here, but what I learned really fell into two basic categories:
How to recognize deception, and
How to influence other people
As a cop, I always had to be on the lookout for dishonesty. A lot of people don't realize this, but cops get lied to ALL THE TIME! And when I bought dope as an undercover agent for the Missouri Highway Patrol I was actually in the BUSINESS OF LYING... I used manipulation and influence to gain the trust of dealers, which opened them up to selling me drugs. Those days proved to be my ultimate test—and my ultimate lesson—in learning the art of moving others… simply through CLEVER USE of the spoken word.
Ever wondered how a police detective gets a suspect
to admit to something—that'll send him to PRISON…
Must take something pretty clever, huh?
Well, you're right.
See, I learned those techniques and I got those confessions. And after some time, I realized something pretty cool: That when they taught me these interrogation techniques and strategies, what I'd really learned was HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH INSIGHT AND SAVVY.
I used these simple approaches to buy dope as an undercover drug agent, and later to take down THOUSANDS of pounds of marijuana and cocaine from interstate drug couriers as a Missouri State Trooper—and I did it just by LISTENING and SPEAKING to these people with UNCOMMON CONVERSATIONAL STRATEGY.
I ALSO realized these principles of savvy communication had no limits, that it wasn't just for cops, that with a little tweaking here and there, I could adapt them for YOU to use in ANY ORDINARY CONVERSATION.
So I ended up investing years of my life tweaking and learning these techniques—not in classrooms, but in bar rooms, court rooms and trailer courts. No kidding. Then realized I had something that could benefit people like you, that I could reveal these little-known secrets of the spoken word and give an ABSOLUTE EDGE to anyone who possesses them.
We both know that experience is a great teacher, but she's also slow and painful! So I decided to put this information out there—not for the AVERAGE, but for those who could imagine there might be something more, people who'd be willing to EASILY LEARN what I got the HARD WAY. First I did it with my book, Conquering Deception© (now in its 5th printing), and more recently with my DECEPTION SECRETS© AUDIO TRAINING SYSTEM, and… the SPECIAL REPORT I'm about to unveil for you next…
Because my "Learning Curve" was more
like a coast-to-coast HIGHWAY…
I asked myself, "What would have shaved YEARS off?" Or more to the point, I wondered, "What would be the QUICKEST WAY to jump start someone who wants to know the hard-core fundamentals on deception, truth, and conversational control, but doesn't want to spend a fortune (or a couple of decades) trying to discover it?"
My answer to these questions came to me when I got the inspiration for The INSIDER'S REPORT on LYING. I wanted to put together the most hard-hitting, street-wise stuff I knew about dealing with people and their tendencies toward… let's say, an avoidance of the TRUTH. What I ended up with is an awesome volume of insightful information that allows you to "learn the rules" of the Deception Game with lightning speed. It follows the advice of Dragnet's famous Detective Joe Friday: "Just the facts…"
I'll Be Glad To Let You In On…
- The CRITICAL DIFFERENCE between lying and deception…
- The 3 Undeniable Truths of Deception and how NOT KNOWING them keeps you in the DARK…
- Why deception is EASIEST TO MISS in personal relationships…
LISTEN: You can read a STACK OF BOOKS
on this subject 3 feet high…
And you still won't know what's in The INSIDER'S REPORT on LYING. I can tell you this with absolute confidence for a couple of really solid reasons:
1) Most of the writing out there about body language and deception comes from psychiatric types who have great PERCEIVED credibility on these subjects, but no real-world EXPERIENCE with it.
They've never gotten a murderer to tell them the truth, and they've never had a drug dealer offer them a line of methamphetamine in a dark bedroom at midnight… and gotten away with their credibility intact.
Everything I give you comes from my experiences dealing with people who had a LOT to lose… imagine how techniques THAT POWERFUL could be benefit you in your everyday conversations: In sales, business dealings, or at home…
AND…
2) Most books are filled with… FILLER! Why do think they came up with Cliffs Notes? Because when time's short (or you've got better things to do with yours) it's great to have the barebones, to-the-point information. So I say, forget the fluff, let's get to it…
So I've distilled it all down to what you
MUST KNOW about deception…
And yes, if you take The INSIDER'S REPORT on LYING seriously, you'll be able to know what someone is REALLY thinking, what's REALLY in their mind. And how's that? Because the person you're talking with will TELL YOU!
And they've ALWAYS been telling, every one of them… see, people THINK they're only giving you what they want you to know, but here's the reality of it: They're always revealing more than they MEAN to… you just have to know what to listen for...
It's not hard, but you DO have to know some simple approaches and techniques… I have them all, and I'm willing to share this hard-to-find information, but ONLY to those who have the curiosity to take a look at what no one else has ever bothered to tell them…
Are You Ready To Finally Discover…
- Why lying is EASY…
- How INSTINCT and EMOTION defeat us in our conversations with others…
- Why questions give you CONTROL—and how to harness their power…
- Simple techniques for RECOGNIZING another person's dishonesty…
So now you've got a choice… actually 3 of 'em…
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And YES, you're right, I may get ripped off with this offer: No doubt there are those types out there who would take everything this great package of information has to offer—LOVE IT—and then ask for a refund!
As a cop I naturally got a LITTLE cynical about people…
And because of it I would have never stuck my neck out like this just a few years back… but more and more I've come to realize that most people have integrity (especially those looking for solutions to deception!) and at least a BIT of good conscience (yes, even the deceptive ones!) and so I'm willing to take a chance in extending what is really an UNBEATABLE OFFER at an UNBEATABLE price:
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(But FAIR WARNING: While all my stuff is GUARANTEED, the pricing is NOT! If you're interested, SNAG IT NOW, you can always ask for a refund later—because when this deal changes, it WILL change WITHOUT notice… if you come back tomorrow and find it's higher, I will NOT honor the rate you see here) |
Anyway, an even BIGGER reason I'm COMPLETELY COMFORTABLE in making this commitment to you is that I have COMPLETE CONFIDENCE in this program—I put my name on it, and my reputation behind it, and that's something I don't take lightly… ultimately, I KNOW it's solid stuff and that you'll find great benefit in it…
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